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Life is a roller coaster ride that can be both exhilarating and overwhelming. While we can’t control everything that happens to us, there are certain things that we can control that can help us navigate the ups and downs of life. Here are a few things that are within our control:
- Setting strong personal boundaries – Personal boundaries are the limits we set with other people, which indicate what we find acceptable and unacceptable in their behavior towards us. Having a healthy sense of self-worth and valuing ourselves is key to set strong boundaries.
- Controlling our thoughts and actions – Our inner voice can be a source of growth and positivity, but more often than not, it’s a negative critic that loves to remind us of our failures, limitations, and anxieties. By practicing techniques such as journaling, art, meditation, and therapy, we can learn to control our thoughts and change our mindset.
- Where we focus our energy – When we focus on what is not within our control, we waste our energy on factors that won’t let us move forward in life. Instead, we should focus on finding the silver lining and be intentional about our attitude and how we spend our energy.
- How we speak to ourselves – The way we talk to ourselves matters a lot. We can begin by addressing ourselves in the third person instead of the first. It might feel a little awkward in the beginning, but this is a cognitive reappraisal strategy that offers many benefits, such as helping us create space from intense thoughts and emotions.
- How we handle challenges in life – Life is full of challenges, and learning how to overcome them will help us stay centered and remain calm under pressure. By taking a step back from our feelings and making a plan, we can take action and overcome any challenge.
- Self-awareness – Self-awareness is the ability to understand and acknowledge our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. It allows us to be in tune with our inner selves and understand how we react to different situations. By developing self-awareness, we can gain insight into our patterns of thinking and behavior and make conscious choices to change them if needed. Self-awareness also helps us understand how our actions and reactions affect others, allowing us to be more empathetic and compassionate.
While we can control these things, there are also things that we cannot control. For example, we cannot control what happened in the past, nor can we change it. However, by letting go of trying to control everything, we open ourselves up to new opportunities and ideas. The key is to find balance and learn to let go of the things that are out of our control.
There are also many other things that we cannot control. Some examples of things that we cannot control include:
- Other people’s actions and behaviors – We can’t control what other people do or say, even if it directly affects us. All we can do is set boundaries and communicate our needs clearly, but ultimately, we can’t control how others will respond.
- Natural disasters and unforeseen events – We can’t control natural disasters such as hurricanes, earthquakes, and floods, or unexpected events such as car accidents or illnesses. All we can do is prepare and plan as best as we can and learn to adapt and cope with the aftermath.
- The economy and politics – We can’t control the state of the economy or the actions of politicians, but we can be informed and make choices that align with our values and beliefs.
- The past and future – We can’t change what has already happened in the past, and we can’t predict what will happen in the future. We can only focus on the present moment and make the most of it.
- Our mortality – We can’t control the fact that we will all eventually die. We can, however, make the most of the time we have and live our lives to the fullest.
While we can’t control these things, it’s important to remember that we can control our reactions to them. We can choose to focus on the things that are within our control and let go of the things that are out of our control. By accepting that some things are out of our control and letting go of the need to control everything, we can find peace and tranquility amid chaos. Remember, the key is to find balance and let go of the things that are out of our control.
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